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#427938 05/01/03 10:51 AM
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Help! My husband had an "inappropriate relationship" last November while I was pregnant. He swears it was absolutely not anything physical and was purely a plutonic relationship which consisted of NUMEROUS cell phone calls which is how I found out. I had our baby on 2/21 and just received the cell phone bill. He had quit talking to her after I found out in the fall but called her not 24 hours after we had been home from the hospital. He promises it won't happen again and that the relationship has been ended. Am I crazy for staying? What should I do?

#427939 05/01/03 11:02 AM
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the 1st thing i will say 2 u is to follow u'r heart. Everyone is entitled to a mistake. The qustion to u is can u live with it...read my post in plsn a/plan b

#427940 05/02/03 10:49 AM
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Congratulations on your new baby! You must be exhausted coping with a newborn's demands and the fact of your H's other woman friend.

Do you want to stay married and rebuild your marriage? Or has your husband destroyed your trust in him too completely to consider rebuilding?

I need to warn you, that if the WS (wayward spouse) can, they fence sit indefinitely.

There are steps you need to take to restore your marriage, they are on the MB site. If you want to try, go and check out what needs to happen (elsewhere on MB)

Good luck, and nap whenever the baby naps. That's the only way you'll catch up on your rest.


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