Hanora, I glad to hear your message. I found out about his past from one of his friends talking about the girl Marcia hanging around the station for this guy Jimmy in 1976. How Charmaine also was there and would do anything for the guys. I kept questioning my husband if he had anything to do with them and he after awhile finally broke down and told me a little.

After one detail didn't make sense I kept questioning, and told him I will talk to others is when he told more. I believe I basically have all the truth. Why? I guess I just feel it plus I threathened him with taking a polygraph test if he still loves me. So, when I did that, he told a little more and said he is now ready to take the polygraph.

Hanora, since I am new could you tell me about your situation. You can send me a private post if you want to.

I believe my husband has been faithful since the last girl Charmaine. Changing of jobs probably helped because he no longer was in plainclothes and could go all over the city without being noticed. He never went to bars after work or out with the guys. He was ALWAYS home with me from day one of our marriage. If he wasn't working---he was home with me. We did EVERYTHING together.

I feel my husband was a different person back then. The bi-sexuality started in his teens. He will not talk about that much. IT wasn't regular, but sporatic with the guys. I believe he treated the girls he was with like the guys, for fast easy sex. If they gave any inclination about getting serious he left. He is so sorry for what he has done to me and can't do enough to make up for it. Iam 56 years old and do not want anyone else. I do love him

I couldn't handle all this very well so my doctor put me on meds for awhile. It does help.

Waiting to hear from you Hanora. I would post this to you especially but Ima new to this and do not know how yet.