First , I would like to thank Hanora,nikko,forevertogether,SoDisappointed, and angeldust for answering me. This is truly a wonderful site for those with our problems. I recently was on the site"face reality forums". Boy, what a different site than this. The people could be so cruel, and they frequently would tell you to leave your husband because there are better men out there for you. They did nothing to save marriages it seemed to me. I feel much better reading all the posts from this site. One can see this is where you want to go for help. And if you want to save your marriage, listen to the advice here. Again thank you all so much. I will be back because I know it will take a long while for me to heal the hurt I feel.

Some advice I took was this: I was so depressed, sobbed my eyes out, shaking all the time, couldn't sleep, and could not stay focused on anything, and lost weight. One friend of mine (not knowing about my H's A, said I was so depressed and should see a doctor. I did not want to go to my regular physcian so she suggested a lady she went to. A psycharist. My first reaction was"I'm not nuts". She said no but you are depressed. Since my insurance covered this I went. She immediately put me on anti-depressants. After 1 week I noticed a big change. I can sleep, eat, concentrate a little more, and the uncontrolled shaking and cyring has greatly diminished. I also am starting therapy. I don't know if that will work, but I will let you all know.

Thanks for hearing me out. I'm here for anyone who has questions or just wants to sound off on. THANK THANKS <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />