I am posting a new thread because I just learn something else. My husband intially told me he slept with the OW after she said they was together twice, I think my mistake was not asking her to be specific, I assumed they had an PA...anyway my H said she only performed Oral S## on him and that he was with her once. I am not sure what to believe anymore. I thought he only said that so I would feel better (Ouch)..I do not. I have asked him repeatedly to be honest and that complete honesty was needed to move on, he is still insisting it was Oral and that's it. I cannot confront her, because all I want to do is run her over, I did tell her fiance, it did not seem to move him one ounce (some people look for their own unhappiness). Please advice me on what to do or simply give me the benefit of your expereice. Should I be in plan A, I did not think it apply here because he's had NC and he said it was only once and does not seem interested in her or anyone for that matter (I think). My H and I used to spend all our free time together with and without our daughter. I love him, but things were so dull and boring before learning of all this. Let me stop rambling. Please advice