here is a url to go and read a little booklet you can print it out and both of you can read..it is well done and I am sure it will explain this and leave you with the knowledge you need to help both
of you!well this should give you plenty to study and then you will probably be coming here helping others..God bless both of you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

how can I live with my loss
When a spouse is unfaithful

When words hurt