My soon to be ex-H gave the girls a Christmas card to give to me. I didn't even want to open it. From previous posts you would see what a jerk he has been to me and the girls. Well I opened it and it said....I hope this card made you smile. Maybe when your anger is gone we could be friends.....It made me want to puke. My anger? He has been the one with anger. Anger at me for messing up his perfect life. He had it all, the wife, the kids, the perfect home and a girlfriend.....Since me finding out Nov.98, he has treated me like crap. Since moving out Apr99, he has treated the girls and I like dirt. Shuting off utilities, having me arrested, verbally and physically abusing me and the girls, taking away the girls and house from me and leaving me homeless for 6 weeks. And he wants me to be his friend? What do you guys think? I just don't feel that even for the girls sake I can even be friendly with him....

ugh. <BR>my grandpa would say, "rise above it", but, personally, i'd send your H a mail bomb. my h has blamed our problems on MY anger, too, so i know how you feel.