About a 2 months ago, I discovered that my significant other had had an affair. After confronting her with the evidence(thanks to her ex-friend) she admited to the affair. She says she had the affair due to emotional issues with me, and the fact that she suspected that i had and affair as well. I came clean and admitted that I had indeed had an affair, and after several days of discussions about the issue, we decided that we still loved each other, and since we were both were guilty, we should wipe the slate clean, and give it another shot. I have'nt done anything else, and i warned her that any more infidelity on her part, and I would leave the relationship. A few days ago, I was going through the laundry and I discovered that a pair of her panties, and pants were for lack of a better word, "stained" in the croch area. When I confronted her about it, she said that I was overreacting and that was simply part of the "flow" that women go through from time to time,and that she has'nt done anything wrong. Personally, I think thats crap, to me it looked like dried semen! We are not always together, so she has the time to "reoffend" if she really wanted to. At this point, i'm not sure how to proced, she still acts very affectionate toward me, but she made it clear during our discussions, that it would not be emotionally difficult for her to have another affair. I meant what I said about leaving, but i'm not sure.. am I overreacting, or is the evidence staring me right in the face?
