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I am so sad today. I miss my H so much. He has been so mean and nasty to me, but I can't quit loving him and I am so mad at myself. I love him so much that my heart aches and the burning feeling I get just thinking about him makes me break down in tears. I should be over this. It has been 8 months since he has left and sometimes I feel like it was yesterday. God I loved him and still do. I feel so helpless to my emotions.
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I know how you feel...I am just in the beginning but this makes me realize how much i love and dont want to lose him..<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>:) I will love my husband "Always & Forever" :)<P>
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Been there, still there. I know how hard this is. I use to wish that I would just fall out of love with H, but it's not going to happen. Keep your chin up the best you can. On those hard days, talk to a friend, keep yourself busy, talk with us. <BR>
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Just when you think you're dealing ok, one of THOSE days comes. I am so sorry.<P>Do what you can to get through. Talk here if you need to. We're all here with you.<P>Lori
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It's been just about eight months since my husband left also. You know when he first left I thought this would be over after six months. (he looked for an apartment with only a six months lease) But now I can't seem to see a resolution to all of our problems. I think the holidays are making it harder on all of us, and maybe we do need to take the do nothing approach for awhile. but I still hurts so much I could cry myself to sleep every night. My thoughts and prayers are with you.<P>deb
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Thanks for staarting this post. I have been crying for 2 days(yesterday was h birthday) It helps to know I am not the only one feeling this way but I also hate it that there are others in pain too. I just try to tell myself if I can just make it for two more weeks it will get better. I have a feeling I will be here Xmas and New Years eve.<P>Hope and Love for everyone here <BR>faythe
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I just spilled my guts on Stellas thread. I know exactly how you feel.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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I too miss my H so much. It is like there are two of them - the old H whom I love so much, and the alien clone whom I don't even recognize. <P>It has been almost 10 months since he left, and I can not honestly say it is any easier - in some ways it is worse, since the longer it goes on, the crueler he becomes and the less hope I have.
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XH betrayed; XH lied; XH left; XH stole; XH dishonoured & disrespected both myself and our marriage. Over & over & over again...<P>I know that being who and what XH is, we can never be together... XH, even though he speaks often of change, & of being a better man, never seems to catch the concept of what being a good human being actually is. XH always returns to a selfish, self-absorbed, self-important point of view, one which I know could never be reconcilable with how I view life & relationships...<P><I>~sigh</I> Yet still I love XH, & probably always will... The heart is something wonderfully and awfully complex, isn't it? ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>------------------<BR>~~ Elixir ~~<P>
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