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Need help spying pls
#431444 06/25/03 01:14 PM
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Dont have time to get into all details at this moment, but as my signature suggests, Im 35, married 5 years, 3 small kids and D Day is June 3/03....

Please can someone tell me how i can ANONOMOUSLY track my H online activity such as chats and emails? (and it has to be sneaky cause i have to get into his office computer somehow <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
Thanks a lot
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You should first tell yourself what you will do with the information.

I am/have faced a similair situation with my W. Its a very bad feeling when you suspected something is happening. The thought that you may be right knaws at you, so you feel like you have to find out. And when you do (sometimes its right, sometimes it isnt) you get even more depressed that you were right. I am not advocating sticking your head in the sand and hoping the problem will go away. But if you are to the point of snooping, you should really be talking to him about it and your doubts.
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Their is software out there. Check Ebay. Search under "Computer Surveillance". That's where you will find good software cheap. You can also do a general search on the internet. Just type in "Computer Surveillance" and many differents software sights will appear. I hear the SPECTRE is pretty good and basically undetectable.
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I'd be VERY careful about putting any type of "spy software" on a computer that is NOT your own or your H. His office computer does NOT belong to him, unless he owns the business! My guess is that the SA (system Admin) would be notified if you tried to download it. So beware! Plus...I would think that it would be illegal to download this type of software on his work computer!
JMHO

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