this is my first time in this discussion room.i justfound out my husband is cheating.he flew a female down to a diffent state where he had business.he was only calling when he was on his waqy to the office.that is so much out his norm.he usually calls 24/7.i called the hotel and a female answered the phone.i then changed his password on his phone and heard his messages where he wired her money to fly in.she left the room # on his phone.i caught a flight and stayed right next door to them and waited until they came outside.when he saw me he thought he had seen a ghost.he told me that he didnt wont me anymore.he fought a little and the police was called and escortd me to the airport because i put his tires on flat.he stayed gone for 3 wks and didnt call me or his 2 kids.he finally called and he had an atitude.he was asking me why i check his messages and so .he does not want to talk about what happen at all.he wants to act like nothing happened.he finally came home 2 days ago and we havent said anything to one another.i dont know what i suppose to do please help someone.

tammy,

Welcome to the forum. Please give Steve Harley or one of the MB coaches a call. Here's a link for the counseling part of the forum:

Counseling Center

The folks here can help support you, but I think you need some real professional help right now. Good Luck.

Hi Tammy,

I also want to welcome you.