I have been with my husband for nine years- only married for about a year and a half. Before we married, we both did dumb things, he moved out twice- had affairs- we both made mistakes. When we got married, it seemed to all change until I made a mistake. I had an affair with someone I had known from highschool. I did this because I wasn't getting enough of my emotional needs met from my husband. I told him about the affair and he said he forgave me. I moved out with my children ( 3 are mine- one is ours together) to get the kids into a better school district.
My husband and I had agreed that he would find us a place to live in the same area I was moving to and then we would resume living together as a family. After the move, he was over constantly. But, about three weeks later, he told me that he wanted a divorce. ( I had found out that he had been seeing someone else) What bothers me is that he had told me he loved me five days before asking for the divorce.
I have been trying everything in my power to get back together with him, but he's so angry that he won't budge. He goes out drinking almost every night- rarely calls or sees our son- and always blames me for everything. I love this man with all my heart and soul.What can I do now? There has to be something. (The last two times he walked out he was drinking all of the time, too. But after about a month or two- he realized that he loved me and begged to come home) Is this fixable? I really need some help. Please feel free to emailo me at Angella0304@hotmail.com.
<small>[ July 11, 2003, 11:37 PM: Message edited by: Angella ]</small>
