Hi,
I used to be here about 4 yrs ago. I was just reading some of my old posts in the archives back when my name was"crazy or what". I just want yo guys to know that you can survive this. I mean it hurts like hell now but somewhere you will find that inner strength to move forward. Life will be good again I promise.

My story didn't turn out like i had at one time hoped it would. H and i did get back together after the 1st affair only for him to turn around and have another exactly 1 year later. By that time I was ready to tell him not to let the door hit him in the *ss on the way out. We have been divorced now since Dec of 2000.

No matter what happens use the Harley principles. You will feel so much better about yourself.

Life does get good again. I am now engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. Now that I have met him I realize just how disfunctional my marriage was. I used the year after the divorce before I met Tom to grow and become a better person. Looking back now I have no regrets, life changes all of the time and we just need to learn to go with the changes.

Good luck to you all, I will continue to lurk in the shadows and help if I can.

Jill

Hi jilly,

I remember your name from when I first arrived here. I'm glad to see you're doing well. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />