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Joined: Jan 2003
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I do not know which site to post on. I do believe that my husband is having an affair. I feel so desperate at times in wanting to know, and I just can't get the thought out of my head. He isn't home yet and when he does come home I don't know if I should be all nicey to him or ripe into him for not having the consideration to call, not to mention he will be drinking and he knows how I feel about that. I know that the women from the office is with him and the guys right now. If I confront him, he will deny and I will be treated like the fool. I have no proof that anything is going on. It is maddening to believe and not know for certain. Is there anyone else that can offer some insite, am I going crazy??
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Joined: Mar 2002
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lorigirl,
This board is a good place for you. There are many here who can identify with your feelings. One of the first signs of infidelity.....is in fact the horrible feelings that you are experiencing. But I would try as hard as possible to begin to gather real information before confronting him. Look at his cell phone and cell bills....email and computer use. Some of the folks who need to spy to get information will offer some good advice. Describe his normal activities and why you believe he's involved with someone. Have faith...you will find support here (((((((lorigirl))))))))))
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Joined: May 2002
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Lori-
Sorry to read that your H is choosing to spend his evenings in the bar instead of at home with you, and as a BS I relate. My suggestion would be to hire a PI if you can swing it financially. That would clear up the issue of a possible A in a hurry. I hired one and had lots of proof in a short period of time. If that's not a option, you could possibly enlist the help of some trusted friends and/or do a little work yourself. Unfortunately, in most cases, where's there's smoke there's fire. Good luck to you, take it a day at a time...
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