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Hi I'm new here but I found out my wife had a 1 night stand about 3 weeks ago. We are still together and we are going to seek counseling in fact our first session is tonight. Will this hurt and torment go away? I love her so much and she fells the same. She has bipolar and that kind of explains her actions but I wasnt a very good husband to her at all. I was not nice to her. This affair has got my attention as to how I've treated her. She crys alll the time about the way she hurt me. Thats one of the reasons i know she still loves me.
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Click on the link in my signature line. In short: yes it is possile to recover. Hard, but possible.
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Yes! The hurt and torment will fade. I know it's so hard to see that right now. But read SAA and this board and you WILL find ways to cope and heal.
Let us know how the counseling goes.
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Thank you for the replys. The session was great tonight. we are goin to be just fine with this therapist. The hurt is awlful but with time I can accept it. Thank you again.
Sean
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Last night Juiles and I had a wonderful night. We sat up and talked about our life together...about when we first meet, when we first confessed our love for one another. All those good times we shared really tore some of the hurt down. Although I am in such pain over this it made me feel happy to be up with Juiles until 3:30 in the morning...lol. I was some good therapy to just talk about us and not the problems that are around us. It made me proud to stay with her and that she loves me. Although the last couple of days I had vented some anger at her and said some mean things (Im sorry Juiles for doing that,I said some mean stuff that must of hurt) last night made me happy again to be with her. Thanks again for the replys
Sean
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