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Can this plan work if my spouse is having affair with client. She would have to quit her job or be re-assigned. The only way to have that happen is to tell her boss. Should I tell her boss.
Her boss also happens to be very close to her(almost like a father figure).
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Luv,
You're jumping ahead of the game here? Why do you think you should be in Plan B? Have you done an excellent Plan A yet? Exposure is made during Plan A. IF that's where you should be, and I don't know the story with this short post....then YES you should most certainly tell her boss. If he's a father figure...well, that's even better, since his opinion of her is important. Exposure is to open the affair to scrutiny and when an affair is happening in the workplace....unfortunately sometimes that has huge ramifications. Expect ANGER from the your H and this woman. Expect them to blame you for their problems....but don't take the blame for their bad choices. It's a scary step, but those brave enough to do it....are more successful at ending affairs.
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