Its not looking good for me. no contact with my h for 6 weeks. he won't ring or see the children.Has gone to great lengths to make this affair NOT look like an affair.

He has done this by moving out, saying there is no-one else and unless i hadn't followed him, he would probobly still be pretending, waiting for enough time to pass, to make a new relationship look decent, thereby ensuring that his children don't think bad of him

He would have said'well, you know kids, mum and I have been apart for a few months now, and I have met someone else, it was inevitable'. When in actuality, he has been seeing her all along, and has gone to great lengths to not look like a lying cheating rat.

This woman has obviously been paying him serious amounts of attention, and I think he can control her a little. A new footing, she will give him automatic respect etc. So its not looking good for me. I have prayed for restoration and now, I'm not sure that God wants me to have it. I've asked for a word of knowledge from him, as it's stupid and a waste of time praying for something that isn't in Gods will isn't it?

Oh God, this is so awful