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#436325 09/12/03 11:35 AM
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I HOPE I AM DOING THIS CORRECTLY. I HAVE NEVER USED FORUMS BEFORE AND JUST STUMBLED ONTO THIS WEBSITE. MY PROBLEM IS THAT MY H IS ATTRACTED TO MEN. HE HAD ANONYMOUS SEX. NOW HE WANTS TO STAY MARRIED,HAS STOPPED CHEATING. WILL NOT ADMIT HE IS GAY.IS THERE HOPE? IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO HAS DEALT WITH GAY/BISEXUAL ISSUES?

<small>[ September 15, 2003, 10:34 AM: Message edited by: smms ]</small>

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<small>[ January 31, 2005, 02:52 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>

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Even if there are not that many people that can give you advise here, please take this advise.

GET CHECKED FOR STD, aids is a very scary issue, please, please, get checked NOW'.

#436328 09/12/03 02:40 PM
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Would he consider marriage counseling? I have dealt with bi-sexual issues in my former marriage. I wonder if perhaps just getting your H to TALK about his feelings with a trained counselor might help. Whether heterosexual OR bisexual, your H needs a nudge back in the monogamous direction.

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Thanks for responding. He says he has been tested and has not had sex outside marriage for 2 years because he became paranoid about AIDS. He was negative for everything, including AIDS. I will still get tested. He is open to counseling. But what if he's gay and only attracted to men? Even if he wants to stay, how can I sleep with someone who doesn't desire me and who I can never please because I don't have the right body parts? I just am so confused.

<small>[ September 15, 2003, 10:42 AM: Message edited by: smms ]</small>


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