Hey Takola,
I was just checkin' to see if it would really word.

AND
DO NOT POST ANYTHING!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

kissy kissy
from a secret Takola Wanna-be

ooops the secret is out
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

xo Hypatia

Here I am, brazen hussy that I am, and I'm posting - so there. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Hey you Brazen Hussy!
I knew you wouldn't let me down.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I bin thinkin' of ya.
How is life in the windy city today?
Is all safe and sound?
xo
The Brat!
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

TAK!!! Where are you? How was the hurricane???

Is this thread really necessary? People come here to find help to their difficult situations and here you are playing hide and seek games. I don't think this is an appropriate place for that. What does any of this have to do with just finding out your spouse had an affiar?

SamSave,

Yes this forum is for people who are dealing with the discovery of an affair BUT sometimes people need to joke and laugh. If we don't find something to laugh about or lose our playfulness then we will become misrible shells instead of living loving laughing human beings.

I have been at MB for a long time, there was a time that all the infidelity issues were in one forum, we had party threads all the time. Just so we could for a moment or two get our minds off all the pain.

Relax a little please. I doubt that this forum will be filled with nothing but playful posts anytime soon. Though it would be great if one day there were no new people having to be here in pain.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by SamSave:
<strong>Is this thread really necessary? People come here to find help to their difficult situations and here you are playing hide and seek games. I don't think this is an appropriate place for that. What does any of this have to do with just finding out your spouse had an affiar?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sam,
Welcome to MB.
I am terribly sorry that our little games have offended you.
As you have noticed, 99.99% of this Forum is dedicated to some very heavy stuff. Being a Betrayed Spouse is hard work, Plan A is hard work, keeping one's sanity in such a situation is hard work. Sometimes we BSs have to blow off some steam. And what better way than through understood humor, humor that different individuals understand because we have been here too long. With such humor, we are laughing at ourselves. A shared secret, you had to be there joke.

Sam, please hang around more, read more, learn more and hang in there. We ARE ALL here w/ you and for you.

xo
Hypatia

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Sam <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Welcome to MB! Please hang around and try not to be offended by a little light heartedness, heaven knows we all need it!

There were days that this is the only place where I felt I could hear a kind word or find something to smile about, thank God for the people here!

No one is going to make light of a serious post, but some fun is a welcome relief!

Sorry that you have to be here, but you have found a very wonderful place. Ladysing