I'm assuming no news is good news...I hope so.

Hi Pam, thanks for asking about me.<P>Well, the main reason I haven't been posting lately is cuz I don't have anything constructive to say anymore. In the last week I've had to hold back quite a few times cuz I know what I wanted to post would've been rather unpopular. I wanted to tell Chris (CA123) to just let his wife go and get a divorce. I wanted to get into the thread that Lacee started about telling her husband about her affair, and discuss that whole "total honesty" policy. I wanted to rip into the POJA a few times. I'm just generally in a very cynical mood lately and I didn't want to bring anyone down. Nobody wants to hear that "heretical" stuff.<P>Also I've been very busy lately and haven't had too much time to post anything meaningful. I really don't have time to be posting this! <P>As far as an update on the homefront: Things are pretty much the same. We've put off talking about separation or divorce until after the holidays. One good note - we have a really fun thing planned for New Years. I've been in a pretty good mood lately even though I still don't love my wife, and I still miss the OW. Some of the blues have come back a little this week though (partly cuz I had a dream about OW the other night. I hate when that happens! I have no control over that!).<P>So that's my update. No news isn't really good news or bad news. It's just no news...<P>happy holidays,<BR>--andy