Hi everyone!

I am just checking in and giving some of you an update to how Randy and I have been doing since I discovered his A.
We are in MC and I am in IC. I love our therapist and I am learning so much about myself. But it is very painful because a lot of the feelings that I try to stuff keeps coming out. I guess it is much more healthy that way. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
My triggers are there consistently. They just won't go away. Especially this time of year because this is when they "hooked" up. The triggers are brutal and overwhelming!

I am at a time where I am still deciding if it is healthy for me to stay in this marriage. That is an issue for me 24/7. I feel that it is aging me!

Randy loves his new job! Great but as we all knew, his job doesn't make a marriage work like he thought. Some people just learn later in life!

Did any of you happen to watch Oprah last week? Can any of you relate to any one on the stage??
What was so weird is that I could relate to evey one there! Taking bits and pieces of each person.
Amazing! I am ording the transcripts not exactly sure what I will be doing with it considering I had taped the show.

Anyone still having major difficulties with the nasty triggers?

Love to hear back from all of you.

Ali