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#437517 10/06/03 01:20 PM
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can anyone explin to me how a woman or man who has knowledge of ones spouse, can they continue the relationship that is going on.Example other woman know and asks questions about wife.I just can't understand why they procede.
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Selfishness, selfconcern, no morals, no concept of reality, loyalty, family, scrupals of a earthworm, the list goes on,

I dont think anyone could ever answer that question.

I have a W that is involved in a A with a married man, so I guess maybe that kind of person attracts the same.

Both have children, so I guess we could also add abusive parenting skills, but NEVER ask them, they will tell what Good people THEY are and go into detail about all the faults you have.
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I was once a BS, and am out of that M. I remember that my XH told the OW how horrible our M was, that he was "biding" his time, till he could get out. If faced with the situation, I might beleive it myself. I can only assume that I would want to beleive what the WS was telling me. That would explain a lot. Of course, I know not all A's are like that. Not all WS tell the OW/OM that. And certainly, some OM/OW don't care either.
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#437520 10/07/03 05:56 PM
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my H has talked to his OW about me and our family

seems he never thought to talk to me about anything.

He even told her how I changed and messed all their plans up.
And how I was trying to kill him by Fuc*ing him to death.

And she will still call him.

He hasn't seen her in 38 days
hasn't talked on phone to her for 19 days

We now talk that was missing in our 26 yr marriage.

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