Charynne,
Where have you been?! I have needed someone who doesn't know my WH and can guide me w/ clarity! Thank you so much for responding.
Well, I did get ahold of my atty. and he did file an emergency motion for temp. alimony and child support last week, but the judge denied it and we will have a hearing sometime in January (along w/ mediation) I guess the judge denied the motion b/c our bills and income are outside many ordinary cases. To me I don't see the difference. If my kids school tuition is now 2 months in arrears and he paid the mortgage on our rental home (where he is living) and he is now owing 2 months in my home mortgage payment. PLUS he has the freedom to leave the country for 9 days and leave me w/ no money, cancel my credit card, not give me any money to shop for the kids for Christmas...well you get the drift.
When he came back in the country, I was able to give him copies of all the bills due. He said he paid them and that I should turn all the bills over to him so that he would know they were being paid. He wants to use this as a form of control over me and to justify him not giving me cash. He clearly thinks that I am wasting what he said I should be getting in support...THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS less than what is actually owed each month. He even pointed out the fact that he was even so kind as to pay my cell phone bill. He once again said that I needed to get a job and that I was mistaken if I thought I was going to receive any alimony. He told me that he would make sure I would not reamin in HIS HOUSE b/c it doesn't belong to me.
The thing that really bothers me is that he feels so self righteous and sure. He is the one who has not only had an affair, but he is the one that is even recently picking up new and dangerous women, having sex w/ them and has the nerve to spend ALOT of money on them all while my kids are faced w/ being thrown out of the only school they've ever known.
