I'm so sorry for what your having to deal with right now.I have also been a victim of the net.My husband of 18 years has stared many affairs through chat.One he flew to OH to meet her.Left me and our 3 daughters.He has them call our home phone and his cell phone which I'm not allowed to answer.He locks his computer now everytime he's not on it which is 24/7.I don't know what happend to us.I even asked him what he wasn't getting in our relationship.He said "you give me everything""friendship,love,sex whenever,ect."He said he wasn't "in love with me anymore"but he loves me.The OH affair ended after his second visit(she went back to her husband).He cried in my arms.He'd sit for hours at the computer and play all their love songs.When I look back now what a nightmare I've been living.All this just happened 2 months ago.Since then he's had at least 4 other women he's chatted continually with.They don't know he's married.I have proof that he tells them he's divorced,able to buy them anything they want(he's been unemployed for many years)I'm supporting the 5 of us.My children know everything,they hate it.He doesn't let them on the computer anymore at all. I'm sorry I'm telling you all this but your situation sounds so much like what I've lived like the past 2 years now.The only difference is you still have faith and hope,I don't anymore,he's put me through too much abuse with this situation and he's continually lying to me.I truely hope your wife can really look at herself and see what she has before it's too late.It's a shame that the doubt of trust has been entered into your relationship.Please for your own protection and your marriage keep checking.My husbands fully blown addicted to the chat.He hosts a music chat room so it's constantly on and he's constantly chatting and meeting different people which I never had a problem with but he's made it something different now.Please have your wife talk to a counselor for herself and you your self and together for the both of you.I sincerely hope your able to make it especially when you've been together for so long.God Bless You.At least she's showing some interest in making it work??My husband would rather live in a different house.I don't know why.He's told me time and time again it's not me.I can't figure out what went wrong and why he doesn't want to help our situation.It hurts.Anyway take care of yourself and I wish you all the luck in the world......Thank you for allowing me to vent also,sorry....Mand
