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Found out H was still contacting OW and buying gifts. I asked H to leave New Years 2 a.m. I haven't heard from him since and am worried for his safety. It isn't like him not to check in and ensure family is ok. What is reasonable next step? Do I start calling friends, family and OW to find out if he is ok or wait for his next move? I conjur up images of him lying in a ditch somewhere....
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Don't try to contact him. He is holed up with the OW somewhere. Just go on with your life. He will show up.
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MontanaSky,
Is his A exposed already ?. Take this time to call Families & Freinds to tell them that you kick you H out b/c of A. You want to work on M but he has to stop A.
-rh-
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Montana,
Do not try to contact him. You're too caring...he doesn't seem to be concerned about you. I know this is hard, but leave him alone. If/when he wants to contact you, he will. Do you know the OW? do you know where she lives? If so, you may want to drive by to see if his car is there for your peace of mind...but only for your peace of mind.
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Montana,
I just wanted to clarify that I did not mean that too caring part as negative. What I meant is that you're a good person, and it shows.....
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