I found out my husband was having an affair..about 2 months..a few days ago I see the woamn and words with her..she telling me that they are seeing each other and are only friends. but when i was leaving the home he saw my car and pulledup.. My daughet told me me he call someone on the phone ask was they ok...For the last 4 days he as told me he loves me and our children, caling me from work and going home before he was staying out all night..I sad when he is not with me and hurt that he may still be lying to me..i dont know what to do alos, he told me he loves her and she makes him happy but i have 75 percent of his love..please help i dont know what to do i crying all the time

Read all of the information here, especially Plan A. Things will get better, but it is miserable at first. Hang in there.

Hi Unhappyinlife

Sorry to hear about what you are gong through. But I can tell you from my own experience you have come to a place where you can get insight about your situation. You aren't alone. Unfortunately, all of us here have or are going through infidelity. The fortunate part is that many of us are willing to share as you have a concern.

This site has a lot of good information and great posters that will usually step in to aid as you have questions. So do plenty of reading info here and post questions. Post how you feel, when you feel like it.

Hang in there and Welcome. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .


(From your post)
"please help i dont know what to do i crying all the time "

Crying is very normal. You will find that you may run a gamet of emotions and feelings. Maybe you'll feel out of sorts or stressed or despondent. So expect this. As you post and read other post you may find that people have many differnet reactions to Infidelity.

How are you feeling now? Have you had some time to think things over or talk to your husband?