I made it throught the day. Actually it was quite easy. Easy because I goofed. I thought the appointment was 2:45 and I was running a little late. He got there at 2:30 the actual time of the appointment, talked to the nurse, asked if I had called to cancel, she told him no and that I probably would be there any time. He waited about 5 min. then left. I called at 2:45 told them I would be there in about five minutes, the nurse told me that real time of the appointment whoops! TOld the nurse I was sorry. We had the appointment S is doing great more med. cut back, and S doesn't go back for two months. H never returned. <P>Now I am thrilled I don't have to go back for two months yeah!!!!! <P>Now should I send him a nice note to apologize for my goof or just let him think what he wants after that letter he sent?<P>Plus now he is going to be at his parents the 26th I am suppose to take son there that day. Do I still go. This time it will be on my terms and a surprise to him. It will not be in a public place and I can leave when I want. It would be very short?<P>God really did take care of me today. I wrote down the wrong time a month ago. Planning on God's part?<P>Thanks for all your support and prayers.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Diana -- I'm glad you're feeling better. And I am thrilled about S.<P>Actually, I wouldn't send the apology note. These things happen and what? he couldn't wait 15 minutes??<P>Go to his parents on the 26th(you were late before, how about the 27th?...just joking). It's important for you to go, especially since it's on your terms. It will be a strength and confidence builder.<P>I'm so happy you're feeling better. We will make it!!!!<P>--DeWayne--

di,<P>Your still in Plan A... I know you're going to Plan B soon... but keep away from the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Busters</A>.<P>Do call him or apologize in a note...<BR>Be courtious... <P>Oh yes... God is taking care of you all the time!<P>Jim

Alright, Jim, I stand corrected. Diana, send the apology.<P>--DeWayne--

Ok...<BR> <BR>Guys...<P>I don't have all the answers...<BR>If anything I can raise new questions...<P>If I had the answers... wouldn't Sue(my W) be back???<P> <BR>Jim

Jim --<BR> You have a lot more of the answers than you give yourself credit for. I meant no disrespect. You <B>were</B> right. I was wrong. I'm just feeling a little cynical tonight and you brought me back to humanity. Thanks for that...<P>--DeWayne--

I could compensate and show up on early the 25th I would miss him then too. Of course as far as I know he doesn't know that I am suppose to bring son there on the 26th catch him off guard! <P>I had a nice card that said "I said a little prayer for you" but I can't find it. I had it on my desk but if you saw my desk, no thank goodness you can't. <P>I feel like a ton of brick have lifted off my chest. I even ate after the appointment. Haven't been doing too much of that lately. Haven't been hungry, but I was starved then. <P>I guess I should have sent him a birthday card but I couldn't find one that I felt comfortable with. So I just skippedit but I guess I could still say a belated Happy Birthday but you know isn't that being a hypocrite? Maybe not getting any cards from his family will make things hit a little harder. <P>But I will NOT call him I would get here and then I could not be nice, sorry.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Hi Diana,<P>I wouldn't send him an apology. You didn't do anything wrong. Geez, for all he knows, you could have gotten stuck in traffic, or had an accident on the way. The nurse told him you hadn't canceled so obviously you were on the way. If he couldn't wait, then that's his problem.<P>As far as the 26th, if you want to go, then by all means go!<P>Glad to hear that S is doing so well!!

<P>Lori

I will send ing him a note because I like the card. It says on the out side "I said a little orayer for you today... then on the inside it says ...Sometimes the littlest things can help make a big difference. I don't think I will say I am sorry I will just tell him what happens. I don't want him to think that his letter scared me off. Maybe this will kind of confirm that I still really love him. Even though I still do we would have a long way to go before we could even think about getting back together.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

SDS-<P>Hi. You do sound better. Very good news about your S, too!!<P>As far as the apology goes, this is what I would do. I would send him a little letter, explaining that you thought the appointment was at 2:45, and that it was too bad he couldn't stick around. I wouldn't apologize exactly, more like clarify what happened <P>As far as the 26th is concerned, GO!!!<P>God is looking out for you and all of us. Keep up the good work.<P>God Bless,<P>Cheryl