Tell him everything and don't make him drag things out of you. I found out over 10 months ago about my W's A but it took so long to find out everything I still have a feeling that something else will eventually come out. If she had told me everything within the first week without me interrogating her constantly I think I would be past that feeling by now.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Tell him everything and don't make him drag things out of you. I found out over 10 months ago about my W's A but it took so long to find out everything I still have a feeling that something else will eventually come out. If she had told me everything within the first week without me interrogating her constantly I think I would be past that feeling by now. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">*nods* to DM
Thank you for sharing that... it helps to confirm that I've done the right thing. I told him everything a couple of days ago... I wrote about it in another post - "I told it all" I believe it's called. We're struggling... he's overwhelmed... I had quite a bit to tell him. I believe that it's much better than hiding things, though. I've hidden too many things from him for too long. I can't do that anymore. I keep having to tell myself that... it's really sad to me when I realize how natural it is for me to hide things from him now. I have to make a real effort to tell him EVERYTHING.
Thank you again for sharing.
SMH