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Withhold SeX...!
#443600 02/17/04 06:47 AM
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In my 3 year married life, i had sex only 117 times,my wife never interested in sex, or she was acting like that,i never demanded 10 times in a night at least 2/3 times a week, she was llowing me sometimes on conditions,if i buy something or praise her she was happy,like she is doing favor to me.
now we are seperated for 4 years,neighbours says, someone was visting when i`m in Office, was that reason she withheld sex,coz she is happy and full,and did not wanted have with me.I`m not sure who was coming,still,if she was doing with other why not with me. i was not that dumb lover.

Any women have any idea, or been in such situations...?
Re: Withhold SeX...!
#443601 02/18/04 11:31 AM
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Why are were you keeping track of how many times you actually had sex?

If you meet her Emotional Needs then she more than likely would want/allow you to have sex with her.

Were you thinking she was having an A and that's why she didn't want to have sex with you?

I have learned that in order for women to actually want to have sex with you, you need to do something more then just sit there and look pretty.
If you are willing to give to her, do things for her, make her happy, make her feel loved, cherished and special there should be no reason she wouldn't want to have sex with you.

Now if she was/is having an A that makes things a whole lot more complicated.
Re: Withhold SeX...!
#443602 02/18/04 12:24 PM
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Edward, i was just writing dairy,what i have done,now i counted all that that sums to 117.

i was nice to her,as i told u i was not bad lover,but as soon as she deny and if i promise her that she will get something she wanted then she was happy,and we made love. don`t u think she was using sex as weapon to get something...?

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