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#444431 02/26/04 11:59 AM
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Shes at work so she had to go:

W angry at you for many things.
W it's not a one-day thing. it's there. it's not the anger that makes me want to scream, but something is there.
W can't talk right now, need to do stuff.
me: ok. we must talk about it then later when we are face to face. i want you to let it all out. ttys....got to go
W: i am not ready to let it out. just started processing and need time.
ME: ok. whenever you are ready
ME: i love you.

What does it mean? Anyone????

#444432 02/27/04 12:13 PM
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Hi - I'm answering because no one else did BUT I'm sure You are on the right track by comming her. You are not on the right track to keep pestering, following her around the house or whatever. REad up on the 180 method. Stop pursueing her. Study here, read and live the articles. no Love Busters, etc. Demonstrate some restraint and self respect. Lead an active, healthy, fun lifestyle that would attract this type of girl. Be the man she thought she wa marrying. It is to early to tell ut is seems to be working for me. My W seems to be able to listen and respond in certain conversations. I'm basicly starting out as if I just met her. I had occasion to drive her some distance recently. I acted as though we were barely aquanted, and treated her at a local bakery that she'd never been to, got her a shoe-shine, bought her a couple drinks and an appetizer in the middle of the afternoon. She's still an iceberg, but the sharp edges seem to be wearing off...
You be the best you, don't bug her, and see what developes. It took time fo rthis to happen, it'll take time to turn around.
All then Best,
SeekingBetter


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