HI everyone!Well here is the lastest on my WH.Please let me know if this is a good sign or not.Last night my WH called me and we talked awhile on the phone then he came over and we talked more.He was here about 4 hours but during that time as we were talking a car drives past my house then turns around and goes out(we live out to ourselves,country)then a few minutes later my phone rings and some guy wants to speak to my WH says he is a co-worker. I knew it was her. you know that gut feeling, well yada yada and I hand him the phone and she is on there by this time and tell him she want him to come to the store and talk to her and by the way he was acting you could tell it was her so when he hung up I asked and he said yes and that she wanted to come meet her but that he was not. No sooner then he got that out of his mouth the car is back and laying down on the horn.I went out and she yells at me to tell him to come outside and talk to her or she would not leave. I did and I told him that he need to go out there and take care of the matter and that I was going to but that I wouldn't show my butt.So we go and she is acting like a fool telling him that he needs to talk to her and trys to get him to leave with her in his truck.He tells her to leave but she tells the driver to go that she was not going anywhere,driver is 19 yr old son, well he leaves and she proceeds to try to paw him and get him to talk to her.now she thinks he has to take her somewhere because she has no way to leave and I told her he would not take her anywhere.By the way she was drinking.He tells her that she need to leave and that he did not love her and that it was over.She counter reacts by trying to hurt me by telling me things that they have done and that he has said ,the lies that he has told,crying all the time that she is talking.so I tell her...well he is married and well that is what a married man will do if he is running around and as far as her crying out there she hadn't shed the first tear so to stop all the drama.She is still there,can't leave,showing butt so I just went in and called the law to come make her leave in the meantime her son comes back and trys to get her to leave and she won't says she will go to jail before she leaves and continues on with the drama.Then son says well who will take you home and by that time the law was coming and I said "they will"(smile) well you guessed it she got in the car and left.So my question is ... Is this a sign of things (WH)going in the right direction or just another illusion?I feel like I handled that well but if I didn't help me out and show me what I did wrong.I am referring to the fence thing.I still feel like she will not give up and that I have alot to go through. Any advice will be greatful! Keep praying for me.

(((((((((((Hi LL)))))))))))))),
I think that's a great step in the right direction. The OW forced him to make a choice before he was clearly ready to. He's taking his time, considering his options, trying to be fair and reasonable, and she's making a fool out of herself in your driveway.
She's shown him she's not beyond humiliating herself, him, you, your family, her children, she's not beyond angry outbursts, angry demands, annoying behavior.
This is your BEST time to really implement PLAN A. Do NOT make demands, do not bring up the situation. This is your WH responsibility to mend, not yours. Be supportive, be flexible, put yourself first. Do just as your doing. You're talking to your WH for prolonged periods of time, and he's receptive.
Do not let your guard down, don't make the mistake that this is over and you're in recovery. One HUGE point for you, but keep your vessel on course.

Whoa, talk about humiliating herself. That was quite a scene - I wish I could have been there. Stay out of their little drama. You did very well. Stay in Plan A and don't even mention it again.

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