Sheba,<P>Thanks and Merry Christmas right back to you! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>To answer your question, I think when we share what we've learned, it sends the message that we've been working hard, we've learned more, we see the light, we have it all figured out...etc. I guess the implication to that is: you haven't been working hard, you don't understand, you don't see the light, you are making mistakes because you don't have it all figured out...etc.<P>From that perspective, I think we need to be careful how we "present" the info we are learning here. I think there is a fine line between sharing ideas/points of view and educating/pontificating. I am working to understand the difference......<P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>