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Jersey and anyone else reading this. I got a devotional in my email today that is just really good. Especially with what has been going through my ind the last couple days. Jersey you especially, send me an email to medic22003@hotmail.com and I will forward it to you. Once you get that one and if you want to keep getting them, you can sign up from there. If you dont want to give out your main address, just go make one up @ yahoo or something. You really have to see why this thing just slapped me.
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It's officially almost the weekend...weather is going to be great...
you're in good spirits....let's keep you up there all weekend..I'll pray for that especially.
sent you the email address to forward the devotional.
Thanks !
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Still having a rough time with W. Shes not doing anything to save this marriage except showing uo at MC. I told her today there needed to be some effort from her or we were just wasting our time and money. Shes just really bitter about life right now and I dont know if shes going to come around before I just throw up my hands and say to heck with ya. Go where ya want but leave the kids here. We'll see how she does with that the next couple days.
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Well W was alittle better today. At least she was beyond civil, actually had a couple of 10 min conversations with her today. Worked my butt off the rest of the day. Helped my Dad fix the dozer and the bobcat, worked on my lawnmowere and took advantage of the 80 dgree weather. Rode my bike ten miles for that 1rst ride of the year to top it all off. Not a bad day overall.
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I'm glad your weekend brought you conflict and peace. It's real, that gives you something to hold on.
I'm in the twilight zone today.... I guess when the feelings get overwhelming..you just fade.
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W and I had a disagreement today that could have been avoided had she not gone straight to anger and unwillingness to have a discussion. Such is how our relationship has been for some time. I asked her today again if she was committed to making this marriage work. She said some days yes but today not really. I told her she needed to decide whether she was going to fix her marriage or keep sitting on the fence. She either wanted to be married or wanted to be single. I informed her that I too had days when I was just ready to throw up my hands, but everyday I wanted my marriage to work. Not just somedays yes somedays no. I'm tired of this lack of committment on her part. It will be addressed on Tues at or next MC.
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