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OK
I am also registered as usedfor26yrs
laptop is in the shop so it will only go under this screen name.
As most of you know my H had a 13 mt affair
left home for the MOW was gone 4 days came back
I read here and followed everyone's advice
I have been a new person now ( 8 months)
And I have done a plan A souped up of course
And it worked
We had 3 times of no contact letters and meetings
And Finally my H broke it off himself
He has not spoken or seen the MOW for 4 mts now
He has been working also on our marriage
And he is starting to understand it takes TWO
to make a marriage.
I just wanted to update everyone and let
others know that there is hope and you can
live tru this and make your marriage work.
Our # 1 problem was communication and talking with each other about our feelings.
example - he didn't spend any time with me
and come bed time he wanted sex
Why would I want sex with someone that didn't have time for me earlier in the day ????
We have solved all this
he spends ALOT of time with me now we talk
snuggle kiss hold hands
And he gets all the sex he can handle
We are truly THANKFUL to this site because I would of never been able to help my marriage without it. THANK YOU ALL
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Love to hear about success stories. A lot of times, people just drop off the board. Thankyou for giving us an update.
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Posts: 20
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Thanks for the wonderful, motivating story; I am so very hopeful that my WH will realize all that is going to happen with the D and decide to work on our M. We have a 20 year M, 2 S 14 and 15 years old. OW is married 19 years and has a 17 year old D and 15 year old S. The OW H is devasted and is also hopeful she will end the A and work on their M.
Congratulations.
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We still have the ups and downs
But mostly UPS
The MOW husband was upset but knew before I did
He said he was filing for divorce
But I haven't heard from him in a couple of mts
so things could change for them also
They were married 28 yrs.Grown kids also
But she has done this before
So she is a HOOR plain and simple.
But I hope the best for her husband
he didn't deserve this
And neither then I but we will get
tru it.
I will never forget what help this site
has been for me .And will keep you all posted
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