I just found out this morning that H has been to a matchmaking service as of last week (that I know of). I am devastated and very hurt, yet I had a very strong feeling that H has been cheating on me since last year when I was pregnant. We have a 6 mo. old son. I can't get into H's email because he changed his password sometime ago. Is there a way that I can get his password so that I can see who has been emailing him? Is there a way to do this w/o him finding out? Just last night when we were arguing, I asked him if he has been hiding anything from me. Of course he lied to me, looking me in the eyes, and told me no. He has called me paranoid and last night threatened to leave me taking our son. The problem, I don't have a job. I did for about a month and a half, but when our babysitter became disabled I had to quit. Our son requires special attention and there are very few people that I trust to watch him. I don't know what to do. Do I confront H about this now? Or do I wait until I have more information? I don't know how long I can go before I bust. How can I act like I'm sorry about last night's fight and like everything is okay when I know he's looking for someone else? - if he hasn't found someone already. What do I do? I need some advice. I have more posted on EN under Cheating Spouse? Please help! I can use all the advice in the world right now.

look into eblaster software.
do a google search and you'll see. i think it costs like $100 and you can do it without him knowing.

get a friend to charge it for you to avoid discovery.

good luck, i'm going through the same thing.