W took a new job and got talking to one of the other employees. She is into astrology as was the other woman. They started discussing signs and based on what I'll call "aura" the other woman asked W are you going through a divorce or seperation? W relayed that to me and we kinda both were impressed with the ladies insight. But I think more and more reality is starting to pierce through the FOG. While we're not headed for divorce or seperation we are certainly having problems and that someone could read that on W's face is telling. I think this is really starting to take a toll on W. I get support here, I have a friend I can talk to, I talk to an IC and I counsel with Harley. W has no such support and whenever she speaks to Harley I'm sure she can't wait for call to be over. I think I'd rather be ME than her at this point. It's sad but I think we're killing eachother by the inches. If I didn't laugh I'd cry.