Starfish and others: If you truely suspect that your WS is getting poor counsel from an IC, just what can you do? My WWs couselor keeps on stressing to her that now, her life should be about her, that she has been putting other people's feelings ahead of her own for too long. This is SO anti-marriage. It was extremely difficult to get her to see a counselor to begin with. I would think that anything that I say about this counselor would be taken negatively by my WW. Also, this IC says that MC right now would be a disaster right now. She says that MC works on problems and we don't specifically know WWs problems yet. Huh????