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Found out about two weeks ago that H had a three day A. H is home and we are trying to rebuild the marriage. H is trying very hard to help me feel secure, but I'm having a hard time with it all. He is gone about 11hrs a day at work and I am alone with nothing to do but think of the lies and deceipt. H is great about talking about it when he gets home and this helps, but what to do for those hrs. he's gone? I know he has no further contact with the OW and I'm sure this is where he wants to be, but I need to find a way to deal with it while he's not available to talk to. Also I don't want this to become the center of our entire lives together. Any advice?
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it's wonderful that he is willing to work on the relationship...i'm going through the same thing...my H had an affair a year ago and i am still trying to deal with major trust issues. But we have also had some fantastic times since. my hardest time is when he's gone and i come up with awful scenarios of what he could be doing...but the moment he's home we have a very fulfilling relationship. hang in there..it gets better, but it does take a lot of time (apparently)
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