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I found out 6 months ago my husband was having an affair. I have lived so many lives during that period, I have no idea who I am anymore. The affair continues, but I finally asked him to leave, but I want him to come home so much it eats at me all day, every day. How do I deal with this? How can I move on, when it hurts to even breath? help!!!
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RJ,
Welcome to MB. 6 months is a long time to suffer through this alone.
Please read the concepts section above and then get ahold of the books Surviving an Affair and His Needs/Her Needs. Both are by Dr. W. Harley.
Then post more about your sitch. The many lives you have lived through since d/d may represent the various stages a BS goes through. You will find support for yourself and believe it or not even for your H..... but not for the WS. There is a big difference and we will help you learn the difference.
You will find support here. We not paid professionals just got our degrees from the school of hard knocks.
take care,
L.
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Welcome to Marriage Builders. Luckily you have found us. Most of us were at one time just like you. But life does get better, now that you have a plan. Read all about Plan A here. That is the starting point.
It is miserable at first, but you can recover and have a better marriage than ever. Stick with us.
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Hey RJ, How are you doing? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> L.
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