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Moving On
#448534 06/08/04 09:45 AM
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Hello, T'm new here and need some advice. My fiance of 5 years decided he could not take this realtionship anymore, he just blew up and decided to leave. He left me with a 2 year old in remission from cancer and many other issues. I found out now that he has been seeing a woman and living with her since he has left. I have contacted her a few times, even though I should not have, (threthened her as well) stating that I did not want her near my son! Anyway the problem now is that this man wants to still come over, take my son to school,and he still want to have sex,kiss me and other things. I told him today that you are starting your new relationship so wrong, but the other side of me wants to hurt that B*%#$%% and do it. Anyway any advice on how to move on and forget about this man and live my life?
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. Sorry you are in this situation, but it is a good place to be. Post your next post up on General Questions, as there is more traffic up there.

The MB plan is to start in Plan A. Read about it in this forum, under General Welcome to All New Builders.
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i think you would be hurting yourself more than her especially if he decides to stay with her anyway. maybe he cant deal with your childs cancer and maybe he needs some pro help? i was in a similar situation when he left me to pursue another woman(girl)only 17,and i started seeing other people and made sure he knew about it. he was back within 2 weeks, cut off contact with ow(and i was talking to the girls mother so i knew he kept his promise)and we we moved on and made a life together. got my own problems now(see cant believe he did this to me)and you will see what im talking about.dont understand why men think they can cheat but we cant.good luck!

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