I have finally found out what I have suspected for the last 4 months. My H was caught in a lie last week about his whereabouts. He says he was at an appointment, I thought other wise, called a hotel at the beach and there his name was. It was the next day, so I confronted him and he told me it was true. He gave me know other information yet. He made up a name of some random person but I know who it is. THere are too many signs, I have seen them together, other people questioning. He says yes, it happened and he feels guilt and ashamed but is not coming clean with everything. I thought 3 months ago when he went away on a trip and did not call that it was too weird. I got confirmation today that she(the one I know it is) was on the plane. He is still not telling me the truth. I have seen him or talked to him everyday since last Thursday when this happened. He calls to check on me because he now realizes what he has done? I do not know what to believe. I know he says he loves me. Bad thing is the woman has now supposedlly gone out of town, how convienent. I know her number and cell number to call and confront her. I have not told my husband yet about the confirmation on the plane, another person saw her on there and he denies until yesterday that it was her and that she went to NY with him. What should I do? I am trying to stay strong, but my personality is not confrontational. That is one reason I have nothing as far as calling her, plus didn't want to stoop to that level. I think he is covering up for his job. He works at a resort and she is a member out there. I think everyone would be shocked and just as devestated that one of their own did this, becuase they all know and like me to and think we are great together. She is a horrible person with bad morals and everyone should know that. I do not know how to go from here. I know I will confront H with new info but do not know what to do after that. I really love him and if it is able to salvage I would like that, but just not sure if I can trust again.
