My husbands excuse for seeing other women is that I don't pay enough attention to him. Also, he wants sex every night or he gets upset and says that I am rationing out the love! He gets jelous of a 5 month old baby boy! I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, feeding, clothing, and entertaining the kids. And don't forget an 8hr job to pay all the bills. I have 3 kids by the way (5 mo./1yr/6 year old). Maybe if I had some help with the household or the kids I could spend more time with him. I am tired of trying to be the SUPERWOMAN! I don't even have time for myself let alone him. Sometimes I wish the other women could see him for what he really is--SELFISH! Why do men get the better end of the marriage deal? Then we have to rebuild the marriage when they mess it up? I hope I'm not confusing everyone...Any SUPERWOMEN out there?

Yes.....Or at least a SUPERWOMEN wanta be!<P>I'm were you are, right down to the letter!<P>And my H has "helped" the OW out, playing daddy, helping her around her apt, fixing her car, bringing her out to dinner to get away from it all, paying her bills........All the things he doesn't (and hasn't) done for me! Makes you just want to scream!<P>This is a great place to vent.....<P>Good luck, hang in there.....

Well, I don't have kids, but my H is a bottomless pit for attention. I swallow so much s**t you can't imagine...well, maybe you can. So many annoying things, and I say nothing, because when he doesn't get 1000% of what he needs 24 hours a day, he goes running to OW/"friend" for solace.<P>Most people say that no other woman would do for him what I do. But it sure does take a toll on me.