I spoke with WS this morning she is out of town in the city where the person that she is having the affair with lives, also where her mother is having surgery. I spoke to her this morning, and she was out walking(something she never does) I asked her if she wanted to move back to where she is now and she said Possibly with My Daughter. Then she gets on the subject of divorce. OK, now i'm up in arms, I'm concerned that she will try and take my daughter out of state if we get a divorce. I'm scheduling an appointment with an attorney this week while she is away. I have documented all of the affair information, as well as emails that they have corresponded. Even contacted the OM's wife and he called my house making threats. My main concern is my daughter and getting custody of her. What do I need to do.

For those unfamiliar with my story here is the link.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=004485

Hmm. Have you let OM's wife know that your wife is in town? That is what I would do. Then I would stay in Plan A.

Yes I did let the OM's wife know that my wife was in their state.

Yes I did let the OM's wife know that my wife was in their state.