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After two days away with my son & nephews, I thought the separation would do me good. (read my previous thread) Came home today and saw a card from one of my H's friends (went on the same trip, did the same thing!) A religious get well card! Can you believe it? A man doing the same thing to his W sending my H a f*#&ing get well card! Everyone (except medical Dr's) and even H thinks that there is something physically wrong with him. What BS (not betrayed spouse)! So after thinking that yes I can get over this betrayal and move on with H I feel I'm back to d-day plus 2 weeks(of being zombie like) Son of a gun thought the card was a nice thought, someone was saying prayers for him. JC! who saying prayers for me and our 19 + year marriage!
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I didn't think I needed plan a or b, I thought my situation was different. It was just a one time thing with a stranger, but I need to get this off my mind and begin to recover. How do I start? I don't want to be a sour puss and be angry at the drop of a hat, or in this case a card! I want to put it behind me, I want my H to realize how fragile things can be. How almost 20 years could be gone by being so selfish? I am a strong & healthy person and I want a strong, healthy marriage. I know I need to stop flying off the handle...help....
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