WH said that we needed to talk and I thinking that he was observate knew that i had found a card from OW. He was flabbergasted by the look on his face. He thought I was going to talk about us working things out and my jealousy. When I confronted him about the situation, he stated that it started with his friends daughter as a friendship. I do not know what to think. I hope he is telling me the truth. I contacted the OW and had my husband repeat what he told me he had told her. That he did not want to contact her again or for her to contact him again, but has it come to an end or not?

I told my WH husband about marriagebuilders.com and he has been actively reading the articles and we are now into taking the EN questionaires and joint agreement. I do not know if I will be able to get past this EA or the PA that he confessed to me. If any advise please help.

jazz -

Your situation sounds very hopeful. I am glad that your husband is reading here. See if he will post.

You CAN get through this together. Lots of folks do, and end up with a BETTER marriage.