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My husband left me for the OW. She is not young or beautiful, so I don't understand this. I do realize that I had become co-dependant towards my husband and thought I could fix all of his problems, which are many. He will not have any contact with me and I feel like I'm stalking him. I'm willing to work out the issues but he doesn't want to. He denied the affair 1 year ago and we reconciled now he has returned to her and I'm not sure if the marriage can be saved. How do I overcome the rejection and hurt. I made this man my whole world and I can't stop thinking about him.
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Joined: Sep 2003
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Welcome to marriagebuilders, a great place to be under the circumstances.
You will get lots of help here from folks going thru the same thing.
Start in Plan A, which you can read all about on the link in my sig line.
Please give more details about your husband's problems.
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Joined: Nov 2001
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Welcome and sorry you are here. Start with plan a and keep reading. Dr Harley's book Surviving the Affair is a must read. It is not hopeless. He just never stopped or restarted contact a few months later, so what you had was a false recovery. Many men will do this, so that's my guess. Keep reading here and you will discover that it is not over. There is hope. If he loved you once, he can love you again. Welcome.
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