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Have you noticed how many new posts from men about their WW are here? It is crazy. Don't get me wrong, I am a BS by my WW too. Lately I've been wondering Whay kind of world do we live in? Why our WS having the most amazing thing in the world which is to love and being loved decide to throw all that away. We all, women and men deserve to be respected. WE ALL BS DESERVED TO BE LOVED, NOT HURT.
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Joined: Apr 2004
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Dear Janei,
I know. I have spent a lot of time wondering how good people can do stupid, selfish, cruel things.
The estimates are that 50% of all marriages encounter some sort of A. So yes, there are many, many BS and WS.
Problem is - we're all human. That means we can acts like idiots and feel like fools afterwards. That means we can really believe "we're not doing anything wrong because it feels so right" (comment from OW).
It's a lot to swallow - but believe me, if you love your partner you CAN get through this. Give yourself time. Read up on this site on emotional needs, love busters etc.
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Dear Janei,
So very sorry to hear about your present heartbreak. It does seem like a crazy world at times, I would agree. How long have you been married ? Do you have any children ? How long do you think this has been going on ? Does your WW know that you know ?
Do share some of the details, there are some very wise and compassionate members on this site that will be happy to support your efforts to try to work this out. Have you read the material on this site as Brownhair has suggested ? It's a great place to begin.
Welcome to MB and do stay in touch with us ! WA
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