Im not sure if I am doing this right if not someoneplease tell me. My sister introduced me to this site about one month ago and i have yet to make my first post because, unlike her I am not good with computers. I found out about H A two days after we came home from getting married, less than 2 months ago. (we have been living together 2 years before) Okay, so we started HNHN, I thought things were beginning to look up!!!! Key word I THOUGHT!! This morming I go to check his email which is in our agreement with total honesty and there in his mail i want to save is a link to a dating service. I click on the link and attempt to log in and it pulls up a log in name from the drop down folder. In the window there is an adverstisement for girls in our area so I know he has been in the site. I cant log in becuse i dont know the password. I have installed a spyware program on computer just now. My problem is do I confront him now, or just let him dig a hole for himself???? I cant even type my hands are shaking so bad. I want so badly to call him at work and confront him but I also want to catch him. I feel I should just start plan B. Please Help

Yikes! Just married and already two instances of him not honoring his vows?

While you were living together, did you catch him doing any of this?

I would make an appointment quickly for a marriage counselor. Something is wrong with your husband.

You might want to post on general questions, as there is more traffic up there, and get some more opinions.

There was one w/ internet about a year ago. I caught it before anything happened. Well they were suppossed to have lunch the day i found out. I feel like I have made the biggest mistake of my life!!! Wondering if I should seek an anullment attorney?? Dont know laws in my state.