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My WW is at the crossroads this week She is isolated from all friends and family because of the affair. That leaves me and the OM to duke it out. This guy has his roots in deep, but she knows she will bottom out soon and have nothing if she doesn't break away now. I suggested this place, but she's worried about getting beaten up by other BS. I said it wasn't true. I need suggestions because she needs strength to get away from OM. Any FWW have any ideas?
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Zoomie, Has she read the info on this site yet? Maybe she can just "lurk" for awhile before finding a suitable thread to post on. There are quite a few of us WS' posting regularly. We're not hard to spot <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> Good luck
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Maybe you can just print stuff that she might find helpful. FWS was not really interested in MB while the A was ongoing. He had preconceived notions about what goes on here. So I would cut and paste stuff for him. There's no guarantee being here will turn someone around, but it doesn't hurt.
Are you going to MC?
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I got my wife here my emailing her info from the site as well as my posts and the responses I received. Then, all of a sudden she appeared in the thread to state her point of view.
She was challenged severely and for a while decided to leave, but she is now a regular and has become well versed with the lingo of the forum.
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Zoomie,
I had given my WW the url months ago but she just admitted going onto MB the last two weeks. I don't think she has posted yet and she may never. Her one statement on about the MB forums is " man there are some really screwed up people there, with really screwed up stories".
After finally reading SAA and coming here she still insists that my A exposure is the biggest impediment to reconciling.ROTFLMAO
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CYMANCA---
Your divorce is about to be final, I guess I should not follow your advice!!!
Thanks
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