I just wanted to say thank you to all of those who have helped me get some perspective during what has been a very diffiuclt two-week period.

It's still hard to think about..and I know that I am going to have to work hard on a lot of trust issues.

But...my wife and I are making a very good recovery. In fact, I'm confident that our marriage is going to come out of this stronger than it has ever been - mostly because I have learned so many things about my wife, our relationship, and our mututal needs.

It's pretty easy to get mired in dispair. I'd like to thank those here who have shared the stories of THEIR failings and recoveries. They've been very helpful.