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My WW works with OM and she has a very good job. WW will not leave this job. They must work together and have an ongoing EA. His primay girlfriend also works closely too. I have considered talking to her, but I suspect she already knows. Also, I feel that talking to OM's girlfriend would cause WW to separate, but I don't want to take that step yet. She considered separation after I talked with others at her work about what might be happening there without mentioning the EA. I have suspicions that she may even have been in a 3some with them, but I really think it is only an EA at this point. Not sure though. What can I do considering there will be continuing contact?
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Freddster,
There is a big jump from an EA to a 3-some!! What movie is running in your head?
Have you had a "come to Jesus" meeting with the OM? One type of EN for the ladies is to fight for the affection of the W and protect what is "yours". (I mean yours in the most respectful and non-ownership way.)
Tell him you are very upset with the attention he is showing to your WIFE!! And respectfully request that he back off. If you had some hammer, like sexual harassment suit against the company to fall back on would help. Or a large baseball bat! (just kidding, kind of...)
I am not sure if talking to the OM would be an LB and against plan A...but as long as there still is contact plan A doesn't cut the mustard from what I understand about it.
Hopefully some of the MB Vets can chime in on this. I am sure this sitch as arisen before.
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Have done all of that. He thinks that his life could be in serious danger and is running scared. We have talked and he thinks he is being stalked for elimination. My emotions are all over the map, but murder isn't going to happen.
<small>[ October 20, 2004, 12:04 PM: Message edited by: Freddster ]</small>
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